?1: I've capped every class accept for cleric, paladin, and ranger. I play about all of my characters equally, don't really have a favorite. I will say I like to play my characters the way I intended to. Example: I hate tanking on my bard, but I still do because somehow I made it good enough to get in the thick of it. (not something you can really do anything about. )
?2: I've participated in just about all sponcered live events. I wish you could have live events such as a special quest that did not require man power to constantly hand hold. Live events on DDO just seem to be very lacking compared to so many other MMO events. I do not understand the setup with which you are forced to work in, so I am unable to really offer any reasonable ideas within means with which you could accomplish them.
?3: How beautiful it is, and how you must be willing to actually think (aka use tatics) other wise you will die. This is not a game with a "win" button by any means. The tatics needed in any other MMO I've seen (which isn't many mind you) are pud compared to this game. I like the fact I'm forced to think, then rethink what I need to do in order to help the group beat a quest. It keeps my brain active.
I bemoan and (#@#! about the fact we have no way to change how our characters look, that bards can not change their tunes, and voice chat control is not as tuneable as I'd like.