As a Lvl 10 Fighter that has spent more time going backwards in XP over the last couple of weeks I must throw my gauntlet down! I wait and wait and wait to run my quests because I am smart enough to know I will need a cleric to allow my whole party to survive and no clerics want to join me. Whatever dastardly deed it is I have chosen to partake upon would certainly do me in many times if I did not drag along a competent cleric.
I am always hoping that as the fighter I can protect my cleric well enough to allow him to sustaine me long enough to finish the adventure. It is afterall just that, an adventure. My problem has been that no matter which cleric I seem to luck out and convince to come along, I have found myself dying way more frequently than necessary.
I am aware of the need for, and willing to give the cleric his due and his recognition.
Quit the whining. Tell your party when you first begin that you want wands or something. We all know how expensive they are. If we want to bring you along in hopes of completing a quest, we will be more than willing to supply you with what you need. If I offer it to you then take it (half the time when I offer I get told no thanks to wands, etc.). If you aren't there then I am not finishing the quests.
The next time you are online though, I fully expect you will speak your mind to get what you want. I also expect that this time when I ask you to join my party the answer will be YES!