Lately i have been working on a halfling dragonmarked paladin evasion tank, this is my first defensive build and is my new favorite character, i have had a few compliments from people, and have recently started to reach top of the kill counts despite being a defensive build, anyway i recently hit something that annoyed me and made me worry about my paladin, on thelanis the other day there was a LFM Xorian Cypher Elite run, they were after 2 tanks in the range of 9-10, my paladin naturally went to join and i received a tell from the leader asking my hp, i told him i had 160 hp and was declined.
currently my paladin is Paladin7/Fighter1/Rogue1 and sitting unbuffed on 40AC, Selfbuffed i can hit 47 (and no i dont miss all the time i use +5 weapons and thanks to a pair of planar girds run with constant GH) but this made me wonder, my con isnt anything special (base 14) which is why i took a toughness feat and the enhancements to boost my health, this all has given me 160hp on level 9 which personally i considered not bad considering i'm wearing a mod fort item and have high AC, but i'm curious did i screw up?, is my halfling not good enough to claim to be a tank?, what sort of HP should i aim for by level 14, by looking at things i should hit around 250-300 by the time i hit 14 and have on all the nice items but is it worth it? have i missed a key benchmark in HP?
Anyway just after opinions should i reroll Tamn my paladin or just ignore this one event and think of them as powergaming jerks?