Yeah, or Shade could steal loads of kills with his Glancing Blows... or the caster could weaken all the mobs with Fireball and the tanks would deal the last blow.
I agree killcounts are not the best example, at all.
This might interest you then.
Sounds good. I'll be please to learn abouot your experience.
I've already had a cleric complaining that we took not enough damage. Some party members took their armor off and fought naked... the cleric barely saw a difference...
But yeah, there are some quests that are much easier on you. Anything caster-low is a breeze. When there are casters, it gets a bit harder if you move resist-less. So ask for them, you need them when you got the aggro of 5+ casters at the same time. They won't, however, succeed to land any Will-based, Fort-based spells. But sadly, most Reflex saves are save for half, so you still take damage.
The timing on intimidate becomes like a second nature before you reach level 14, unless you powerleveled like crazy. I took my time on Borror and did a few quests for favor, so I might have had a few hours of questing more, but I doubt you'll not get used to it by level 14.
I've came back from a month break of no gaming (hurray for RL!!) and was surprised that I still knew how to play the build, so forgetting it is not an issue. It's like riding a bicycle, you never really forget.