So here's the thing... I don't auto-buff anymore for people I don't know. I don't even buff on request sometimes. Now let me explain why, and maybe this will slowly fix itself.
Too many people have access to their own 'buffs' greater resist cloaks, rings, armor etc. I hate wasting my time casting fire resist on someone who wears a grtr resist cloak, it bugs me.
Too many people holler out in voice chat what they need, and by the time I've buffed the first person I've forgotten who asked for what else.
We have a higher proportion of zergers now than we used to... and that includes me sometimes (I do get a kick out of being able to kill stuff again as a cleric).
So, if you want buffs do me, and every other buffer a huge favor. type out in party chat what you want. Then hang out until you see the person responsible for that buff start moving off. Then go to voice chat and say 'Hey Divine/Arcane can <my name here> get Buff X?'
Don't say "I" say your bloody name. I might not be looking at the screen for that 2 seconds your talking, I might just be ********, play to my lowest common denominator and make my life easy if you want something from me.
There, that's that. I want to buff people. I just don't want to waste both my time and your time, and everyone else's casting **** that's already covered. I won't even ask why you want it, as long as you want it. I hate it when people question why I want Freedom of Movement on my fighter. I don't care if there's nothing in PoP that normally casts hold, please for the love of DDO, just humor my paranoid arse.
It's kinda like hearing arcanes whine about their GH scrolls when I play my fighter. I tell people 'Hey Smush has his own GH', I still end up getting it cast on me.
Anyway... I'm babbling at this point. Sorry if I offended anyone *shrug*
Vox
P.S. This issue was brought up in another thread, but it seemed threadworthy on its own.