I would like to thank everyone for the advice and the warning about the extra SP, as well as the advice for how to conserve SP.
I like the flexibility afforded by the wizard, even if I do have to play quests below my level. The only problems I have are SP and people who think I need to get in the back of the group and crowd control instead of bashing heads in.
Hiryuu:
1. I need skelly tanks, and the archer looks cool. Having a (gold) free tank and hoping to find a rest shrine increases my chance of battle survival.
2. Not a bad combo, but the reason I cast is because it's more satisfying to make a kill. I'll test it out sometime.
3. I'm a big fan of Sonic Blast and Electric Loop. The only annoyances are the range, one reason I like ray spells. Looks like I need the Enlarge feat when I can get my next bonus feat.
4. I have Charm, but I've never used it. I prepare Command Undead whenever I can, though >
5. That looks pretty cool. I'll need to level up Crafting some more.
Kinerd: just looked at the CL7 Arcane scrolls, and those look awesome. I've had the Rare Arcane Scroll List bookmarked for awhile now, so I won't waste my level-up spells on something I can buy from a store.