I have either had the worst luck in the world, or less and less WF are picking up any HF, or if they do its only HF 1 at the most. Barbarians in particular. I mainly do shrouds and elites, so it may change a bit with Epics, I don't do enough to be able to tell (im in it for the fun, and I just dont enjoy them much).
We have one WF Barb in particular that winds up in shrouds with me very often, has HF 1, and no +% healing gear at all. It takes me 3 Heals to get him full health from about 1/4, wheres the Dwarf Barb in the raid usually takes me just under 2 (slightly overheals him with second). When he (the Dwarf) breaks out his tanking toys, he has an additional 30 or 40% bonus from Levik's, etc. Both of course use their big Vicious weapons in the shroud.
I asked the WF not long ago in tells if he could look into some healing gear or at the least pick up HF 2. He responded by informing me all of his slots were geared towards dps, and it was my job to keep him healthy, following up with maybe I should go out and farm more potions. The following raid, when he got 2-3rd on priority list for healing, he was literally screaming over V chat (I also learned he seems to be young, I'm guessing about 14-15. Interesting.) about keeping him healthy, at which point I calmly responded that I was busy keeping everyone as healthy as I was able while also making the mana last, maybe he should farm up more potions.
Now, am I being an a$$hat here? It normally drives me nuts to see ANYONE"s health bar drop, but I am also in the game for the enjoyment, and I actually enjoy healing most of the time. When I have to literally babysit one person while trying to keep the rest of the raid up (and that person is not the main tank, which hardly applies very much in this game compared to others), it takes much of the enjoyment out of it. When they do absolutely nothing to make themselves sufficient / easy to work with, leaving up to me to 'just deal with' it then starts to feel personal to me, which gets me rather belligerent (hey, I know my weaknesses).
I dont have epic'd out toys, but I am decently set up for the job (2200 mana on this one at lvl 18), Sup Potency VI, maxxed out enhances for the level, Improved Emp, Maximize, Heighten, Quicken, Wizardry VII, etc. My normal Heals hit for 378, crit for 950+ (it varies).
Should I be expected to farm and blow my hard earned potions on pugs with people who do not know enough to increase their own survivability a bit, only focusing on their forarm? Or is this a newer thing with some of the up and coming players?
Partial rant / venting off steam, and partially looking for feedback and your opinions here. I would like to add that if you do not / have not played the main healer for any length of time in this game, your feedback will not carry too much weight, so save the flaming. I'm looking for honest opinions here to see if I'm expected to go out farming all the time to support pugs, or if people should come equipped and ready to work with a team.
Thx in advance
~Dylvish