weapons?

[Anklenibbler]

im going with a monk splash but want to be centered to use stances.
of the 3 kinds *handwraps, Kama, Quarterstaff* which seems to be the better choice for damage?
if QS what feats do you take? since you dont need finesse or do you still take it for those times you need to use kama's?

[Letrii]

Depends on what you are splashing with and how character is built.

[hydra_ex]

im going with a monk splash but want to be centered to use stances.
of the 3 kinds *handwraps, Kama, Quarterstaff* which seems to be the better choice for damage?
if QS what feats do you take? since you dont need finesse or do you still take it for those times you need to use kama's?

None of the above. Unarmed/wraps.

QS you'll want all the THF line. For unarmed/kamas, you'll want the full TWF line.

Also, I think you misunderstand Finesse. You would never take finesse unless your DEX is higher than your STR. If it is, then you should only stick to light weapons. If its not, then you would not take finesse, and you would not need any feat to use the kamas.

[Timjc86]

im going with a monk splash but want to be centered to use stances.
of the 3 kinds *handwraps, Kama, Quarterstaff* which seems to be the better choice for damage?
if QS what feats do you take? since you dont need finesse or do you still take it for those times you need to use kama's?

Handwraps and kamas are equally bad for damage; quarterstaves are worse (since they cannot be used for TWF).