I have had terrible exp with some PUG's as of late.
Here are some of the reasons:
No self healing at all - buy some pots if you cannot use wands. Buy wands if your class allows you to use them.
No respect for the party leader - I am rarely the party leader. I do what I am asked else I would not join. If the party leader says SLOW... that tells me to not run ahead without the group. Some players are still getting used to everything.
Listen to us Vets - If I request you stop ranging mobs when we are still dealing with a mob... I know what I am talking about. I was in Haunted Library run where the party ran and pulled everything in sight and out of sight and we all died... no fun... not to mention one of the group insisting on opening the chests not knowing there was a trap and a door that closes you in...
Rangers - Archery is fun... you MUST have a shield and some blades to take care of the mobs you are pulling past the other fighters. ... not going to save you for not thinking ahead. Not the clerics fault you drew the aggro of the entire mob because you are tagging everything!!!!!
Healers in general - Being a healer costs a great deal. If you are new and short of cash to buy wands/scrolls/pots, play something else to build up cash. It will serve you best as you raise in levels to get used to spending your plat to have the gear to keep the party running.
Tanks/Fighter/Tempest - If you are going to frontline, be sure you can take it. If you miss more than you hit and you take more damage than everyone else 80% or more of the time... look at your stats surf these message boards and see what you can do to buff up a bit. Some people are naturally looking at builds posted, but do not follow up with the right gear. Can be more complicated to be a fighter in this game then you might think. Clickies are your friend. Remember the healer might ignore you if you are proving to be a mana sponge.
CASTERS!!! - stop drawing the aggro before the fighter types. It is nice to shot them with you MM or ____ Ray... but if you have low con and few HP and no armor... you will die. I also want casters to invest more in items that make you useful when you burn through your mana. Many casters will use Crossbows, Wands, Throwing Weapons, Quarterstaff... a Shield ... Standing around for half the quest because you are out of mana will make you less appealing as you get higher in levels.
this is mostly me ranting but I would like to hear form other VETS and your suggestions or fix mine.... I just want these new players to feel like they are apart of the community and they will not be if they keep ignoring our assistance.