Don't take the following post personal, Monkey. This is the way I psot when someone say somethnig that makes little sense.
Sorry.
You are equating +2 damage* on your main hand and +1 damage* on your offhand to +14 damage on both hands?
Oh, shall I mention that the first bonus can only be gained up to 5 times a day and that you are very likely to want to loose on those benefits when you want to move? Oh, sure, you gain extra Con, extra AC and Lay on Hands but can you really equate that to a 12-13 damage per swing loss? Especially when the extra AC and Extra Con are also only gained when standing still, and that as a DPS paladin you probably could not care less about extra AC.
I certainly hope not considering that the main flaw of the paladin class has always been their lower DPS, most of all.
*It's a little higher than that. It goes up to 2.7 main hand and 1.35 offhand.