Hello Nervly,
As a rogue-fanatic I can tell you that there is no better class in game. Obviously.
Here a link you might have been searching for:
http://ddowiki.com/page/Glossary
For inexperienced players though, they can be a challenge.
For handling traps you need decent Intelligence and the skills Spot(WISdom), Search(INTelligence) and Disable Device(INT).
For Stealth you require high Dexterity and the skills Move Silently(DEXterity), Hide(DEX), Jump(STRength) and Open Locks(DEX).
Some points in Tumble(DEX) and Balance(DEX) are never misplaced.
Use Magic Device(CHArisma) will allow you to use scrolls for buffs and heals. You are no rogue without it (seriously. experienced players might start laughing if they encounter such a character).
As you can see skillwise, Dex and Int are very important. A Dex of 17 enables you to take all Two Weapon Fighting Feats(musthaves for twf builds).
Main stat: Dex, 2nd stat: Int and try to stay above CONstitution of 13!(con 14 is considered minimum by a lot of players)
I would like to point out the versatilty of the Human race especially for undergeared newish players. Humans get
+1 Feat slot at creation
+1 Skillpoint per levelup ( you can max out 1 full skill!)
get racial boosts great for rogues:
-skill-boost: +4 to all skills for 20sec. enough to get that annoyingly difficult trap^^
-saves-boost: +4 to all saves for 20sec. and no fail on a diceroll of 1(would be autofail). want to get through a trap because the trapbox is on the other side? use this and Uncanny Dodge for a huge boost to reflex saves for trap evasion.
The Assassin enhancements are trimmed towards TWF with daggers/kukris. Use daggers, hardly any decent kukris out there.
the Assassin offers Dex to hit and damage rolls. forget about Str. The Finesse feat is a relic of times long past.
For defense look at Dodge and the Thief Acrobat(TA) enhancements.
I advise you to get Kip Up, nr. 4 of the core enhancements in that tree.
Nr. 3 allows you to tumble through the enemies, has often saved my neck.
For free to play (F2P), please consider buying the Gianthold pack. it is well-liked by PUGs (groups in the LFG, the "O" key)
It offers XP in levels where F2P quests start to get thin, offers good rogue gear and gear that can be sold in the auction house. Great in epic levels as well.
http://ddowiki.com/page/Itemream_Visor
http://ddowiki.com/page/Item:Giantcraft_Siberys_Compass
http://ddowiki.com/page/Gloves_of_Forgotten_Craft
http://ddowiki.com/page/Item:Ring_of_Shadows
http://ddowiki.com/page/Item:Jeweled_Cloak - absorbs spells, rare and useful ability!
http://ddowiki.com/page/Item:Backstabber%27s_Gloves
http://ddowiki.com/page/Item:Intricate_Field_Optics
some more links you might want to check out:
http://www.gwen-morse.com/wiki/index..._for_DDO_Noobs
https://www.ddo.com/en/store - at least for the weekly free stuff
https://sites.google.com/site/ddostealthteamsix/
http://ddowiki.com/page/Chat - maybe there is a serverwide channel for you? do you want to create one? /joinchannel name password(optional)