Paladin build ? Splash of Druid and Monk ?

[IBCROOTBEER]

I'm working my way through a triple completionist build and need some ideas for my paladin lives. I have a level 17 pure paladin that I really just did not enjoy. So, I'm looking to splash some things together and hopefully have a better experience. I'm really looking for something that has more reasonable self sufficiency. I loved the evasion and AC of my monk lives, and I've been hearing lots of good things about using wolf form from druid.

I was thinking that I could do a 2 druid / 6 monk / 12 paladin build. This would give me wolf form, ninja spy 1 with incorp form, and then enough paladin levels for the past life.

My biggest questions and concerns are:
weapons - do i use handwraps? I've heard the crit range is better with wolf form. Do I take IC: bludgeon?
Would I be better off using my scimitars or longswords from other lives? have GS of both for lvl 12+
wind stance - does it stack with wolf speed benefits?
ki - can I use my monk abilities (mainly the incorp form) in wolf form?

If anyone can give me any advice, I'd appreciate it. Still a couple weeks away form completing my 3rd ranger life, so I have time to consider options.

If you have a build other than what I'm considering, feel free to list that as well.

Thanks to everyone for their input!

[EllisDee37]

Completionist past life builds are tricky because you only really get 18 levels to work with. Which two are you burying on 19 & 20; pally levels? That gives you 10/6/2 pally/monk/druid to play with. 10 pally is...not so hot.

[Purkilius]

iirc you can not splash Druid with Paladin due to alignment issues.

Always take at least 14 or 15 levels of Paladin due to Zeal...

[Ivan_Milic]

I did 18/2 pally monk,2 lives,3rd life almost done,lvl 17.
I would at least do 12 pally,for hotd pre,no neg lvls,no point in doing this if you gonna make wf.
Was doing 2hf,since I have only those weapons and I dont really like 2wf.

[IBCROOTBEER]

I didn't think about alignment issues ... I have yet to play a druid at all and didn't know about the alignment restrictions. Thanks for that advice!

I've always done TWF and don't really know if I want to craft new weapons for just a few lifes and throw them away. If there's a good TWF paladin build, I'd love to hear it.