Your Opinion on a Squelching Situation

[Eternity25]

I thought I'd ask if anyone has ever seriously squelched a guildie with the intention of keeping them squelched.

One example of actions witnessed was the Squelcher offered an item up in chat and saying there was no way the guildie you have squelched would get it. No one else but that guildie wants the item, but, you put the item for auction on the AH. Being that it wasn't really soemething the squelchee needed, they did not buy it and did not consider buying it because they felt the Squelcher was bashing his/her feelings. So, the weapon sat on the AH until it expired. The weapon wasn't really nice anyway considering that Shroud weapons were better in all ratings (and this was mod 8).

Whatever the Squelcher did was because of something the squelchee had done way back in mod 4 or a little after the server-merge before they even were a guildie of the Squelcher and they have no recollection of what it was they even did. The guildie that recieved the squelch was basically a casual gamer and new to the game (and all MMOs) at the time. The squelchee tried to use logic, appology, and the greater good to attempt to reason in mod 8+9 to get unsquelched so all can benefit from better communication. It's not like the individual would be getting any kind of item, or reward of item value from being unsquelched. The squelchee is always respectful of others and treats everyone right, but at times did do minor things others might not have agreed with.

In my opinion, it would benefit any parties and/or raids if all members could see/hear what the others were saying. It's not like any offensive language or poor behavior resulted in the squelch which the guildie in question recieved from another. The guildie that is squelched acknowledges that some of the newbish behavior may have caused it, since they were a very casual gamer during the time period they received the squelch, but if that was ~5 mods ago (prior to mod 5, or about 2-3 years ago), people change. Can anyone honestly say that they play/act the same as when they first started playing a DDO (especially if it was their first experience playing an MMORPG)? Can anyone say that they act 100% the same with others and do 100% of all their actions from 3 years ago as a person in general? It would be a positive move if all needless and senseless grudges which hold no current merit could be dropped.

I know a lot of people do have a forgiving attitude, and if someone is extremely insulting and offensive, or rude, they probably deserve a squelch. But if someone has done a few minor things which you might have not agreed with, is a squelch and a longterm grudge really necessary (especially if both involved are guildies). Should a guildie ever squelch another guildie for any reason instead of trying to mutually resolve differences or put aside any of their past mistakes?

I would like to know how others view the situation?

[Lithic]

Squelch should be the end of things. Squelch the ones you can't stand, then move on and forget about anything to to with those people. Theres no need to bring up anything on the forums that resulted in a squelch in game.

[Cedwin]

That entire spiel can be modified to make the squelcher look bad, or the squelchee look bad, it's all in how they each perceive it. If the squelcher is just on here to enjoy a game and not be bothered by the squelchee, then they have no reason to unsquelch. squelch squelch squelch. I don't think I've seen that word this many times on one page.

[Phidius]

The party of the third part is having difficulty understanding the scenario posted by the party of the first part concerning any alleged action taken/not taken by the party of the second part.

Having said that, if you're in a guild where guild mates are squelching other guild mates and it's not getting resolved by the officers/leaders of said guild, I don't think you're really in a guild.

Being in a guild of one, however, doesn't give me any common ground so take my advice with a grain of salt.

[Spisey]

When in doubt, /squelch them out!

[Eternity25]

I am only talking about one individual with another individual. (only case). So it's not like anything major results from it.


The party of the third part is having difficulty understanding the scenario posted by the party of the first part concerning any alleged action taken/not taken by the party of the second part.


It's 2 people, one has the other blocked out, and the one blocked out doesn't understand the causes on why. Being blocked out in mod 4, finding out in mod 8 after hearing about it througha 3rd party.

[Visty]

why would anyone squelch his guildy anyway?
doesntthat kinda defeat the purpose of beeing a guild?

[Cedwin]

I am only talking about one individual with another individual. (only case). So it's not like anything major results from it.



It's 2 people, one has the other blocked out, and the one blocked out doesn't understand the causes on why. Being blocked out in mod 4, finding out in mod 8 after hearing about it througha 3rd party.

The squelcher person has the right to block whomever they want.

To make a comparison, if a woman gets a restraining order against a man, for whatever reason, and the man doesn't understand why, is she supposed to go through a 3rd party and tell the man why she chose to get one? No, just deal with it and move on.

[Elsbet]

Am I the only one who had a junior high school flashback reading this?

Susie told Tommy to tell Bobby that Betty is mad at Bobby because Bobby told Tommy that Susie is ugly and Betty got mad because Susie is her best friend and now Betty isn't talking to Bobby or Tommy...

*boom* My brain imploded writing that.

[Memnir]

I've never squelched a guildie, but I've been tempted. And I never squelch over minor issues. It takes a lot for me to do so, be it in the game, here on the forums, or with life in general.

Sad that you felt the need to do so, but if it makes your time spent in game happier and more fulfilling then you made the right call. If it bothers you to have done so, then perhaps you overreacted...

[Eternity25]

The squelcher person has the right to block whomever they want.

To make a comparison, if a woman gets a restraining order against a man, for whatever reason, and the man doesn't understand why, is she supposed to go through a 3rd party and tell the man why she chose to get one? No, just deal with it and move on.

Would a restraining order be issued if the man was the woman's uncle, and the only conflict between the two were different political and economic ideologies. No violence and no offensive terms ever used? She wouldn't be approved for a restraining order.

[JakLee7]

When in doubt, /squelch them out!

Phreakin Ahsum Spisey!

[Eternity25]

I've never squelched a guildie, but I've been tempted. And I never squelch over minor issues. It takes a lot for me to do so, be it in the game, here on the forums, or with life in general.

Sad that you felt the need to do so, but if it makes your time spent in game happier and more fulfilling then you made the right call. If it bothers you to have done so, then perhaps you overreacted...

Actually, I am the one that was squelched with no clue as to why.

[Therigar]

I thought I'd ask if anyone has ever seriously squelched a guildie with the intention of keeping them squelched.

One example of actions witnessed was the Squelcher offered an item up in chat and saying there was no way the guildie you have squelched would get it. No one else but that guildie wants the item, but, you put the item for auction on the AH. Being that it wasn't really soemething the squelchee needed, they did not buy it and did not consider buying it because they felt the Squelcher was bashing his/her feelings. So, the weapon sat on the AH until it expired. The weapon wasn't really nice anyway considering that Shroud weapons were better in all ratings (and this was mod 8).

Whatever the Squelcher did was because of something the squelchee had done way back in mod 4 or a little after the server-merge before they even were a guildie of the Squelcher and they have no recollection of what it was they even did. The guildie that recieved the squelch was basically a casual gamer and new to the game (and all MMOs) at the time. The squelchee tried to use logic, appology, and the greater good to attempt to reason in mod 8+9 to get unsquelched so all can benefit from better communication. It's not like the individual would be getting any kind of item, or reward of item value from being unsquelched. The squelchee is always respectful of others and treats everyone right, but at times did do minor things others might not have agreed with.

In my opinion, it would benefit any parties and/or raids if all members could see/hear what the others were saying. It's not like any offensive language or poor behavior resulted in the squelch which the guildie in question recieved from another. The guildie that is squelched acknowledges that some of the newbish behavior may have caused it, since they were a very casual gamer during the time period they received the squelch, but if that was ~5 mods ago (prior to mod 5, or about 2-3 years ago), people change. Can anyone honestly say that they play/act the same as when they first started playing a DDO (especially if it was their first experience playing an MMORPG)? Can anyone say that they act 100% the same with others and do 100% of all their actions from 3 years ago as a person in general? It would be a positive move if all needless and senseless grudges which hold no current merit could be dropped.

I know a lot of people do have a forgiving attitude, and if someone is extremely insulting and offensive, or rude, they probably deserve a squelch. But if someone has done a few minor things which you might have not agreed with, is a squelch and a longterm grudge really necessary (especially if both involved are guildies). Should a guildie ever squelch another guildie for any reason instead of trying to mutually resolve differences or put aside any of their past mistakes?

I would like to know how others view the situation?

If you are the squelcher then you don't need our point of view -- do what you think is right.

If you are the squelchee then it is inappropriate to come here looking for sympathy or support. The squelcher had a reason and whether guildie now or not it is up to the squelcher to make their own decision.

If you are neither squelcher or squelchee then stay out of it as it is none of your business. It only becomes your business if you are a guild officer and the issue is causing all sorts of heartache in the guild. If that is the case then it is a guild officer decision and whatever they decide will be best.

Regardless, it isn't something that belongs in the forums.

[Phidius]

Am I the only one who had a junior high school flashback reading this?

Susie told Tommy to tell Bobby that Betty is mad at Bobby because Bobby told Tommy that Susie is ugly and Betty got mad because Susie is her best friend and now Betty isn't talking to Bobby or Tommy...

*boom* My brain imploded writing that.

Sigh... I must spread more reputation around first.

+1 if you don't mind that it's empty, hollow, and meaningless :D

[bandyman1]

Would a restraining order be issued if the man was the woman's uncle, and the only conflict between the two were different political and economic ideologies. No violence and no offensive terms ever used? She wouldn't be approved for a restraining order.

But if she hates that uncle ( for whatever reason ), she doesn't have to ever talk to the man, much less sit next to him at Thanksgiving.

I'm just saying; This is each individual's relaxation time. No one can force anyone to group with those they have no interest in grouping with ( again, for whatever reason ).

Forgive me; But the way you paint it, the squelcher seems unreasonable. But, we're only getting one side of the story here.

[Varr]

I don't know when squelching came to the game.... But back mod 1 or 2 one of the six founders of a guild I had just joined had a coniption fit about the wisdom helm from a von 6 run and being excluded from taking it on his intimitank over the two guild clerics.

This was when +4 items were top dog. There were many other issues....rest of guild got Along with him and rest of guild got along with me.... But that rat bastard made me irrationaly irritated and I would have loved to squelch him, destroy him, toss him from them game. He did leave game about gianthold time. Man I man in want to squelch him now....

[dv8maker123]

Kind of hard to give advice without knowing how severe the original offense was, or how the relationship between the two players is/was. I've left guilds in other games due to the actions of one idiot or another none the less squelch them. While at face value you paint a picture where the offender is has tried to make things right, I'd say they must have really p.o'ed the guildie to get a life time squelch, and only he/she can determine if it is warranted or not. Honestly though, if it's causing problems on raids it's something the guild leader needs to address and manage.

[Kalanth]

I squelched a guildy once. Far as I know he squelched me in return (which makes it awkward when we end up in a group together by random chance). He was a [EXPLETIVE DELETED] which is why I squelched him, and I was a [EXPLETIVE DELETED] in response, which is likely why he squelched me. Eventually we both left the guild and, at least for me, are in better places now.

It is no big deal to squelch a guildy. It is like work, you don't like everyone at work do you? If you had the choice to permanently mute one person in your ears only would you not take that opportunity? I say go for it, no big deal, squelching them can certainly be a better option that listening to them, getting mad, and looking like an idiot when you reach a breaking point.

[Thrudh]

It is no big deal to squelch a guildy. It is like work, you don't like everyone at work do you? If you had the choice to permanently mute one person in your ears only would you not take that opportunity?

Might make office meetings a bit difficult, just like I'm sure it makes raids and quests difficult

[Varr]

Oh my goodness...:I've been sitting here trying to remember the name of my arch nemisis and I can't!!! I would never forget that jacks$$......some mental mechanism must be protecting me from the rage and has actually burned the name from my mind!!!!

Em would know.....let's hope she doesn't helpfully post it.

I'm deff now on the side of squelching can occational be your friend!

[Kalanth]

Might make office meetings a bit difficult, just like I'm sure it makes raids and quests difficult

Nah, unsquelch them for the important stuff and put em back on for the normal stuff. :)

[Strakeln]

I only temporarily squelch, when people have diarrhea of the mouth and when I can't kick the yapper from the party.

If you're talking and no one is responding, they're trying to tell you to shut up. Please do.

[sirlliak]

why would anyone squelch his guildy anyway?
doesntthat kinda defeat the purpose of beeing a guild?

trust me there are members in a guild that can some times be so annoying to the point where there almost kicked and those are the ones that are squlched they are the ones that spam guild with stupid **** are annoying over vent and talk about miley cyrus constantly!!!!! to the point you want to punch them in the face!

[Visty]

trust me there are members in a guild that can some times be so annoying to the point where there almost kicked and those are the ones that are squlched they are the ones that spam guild with stupid **** are annoying over vent and talk about miley cyrus constantly!!!!! to the point you want to punch them in the face!

why would you keep such ppl in your guild then?
give them a warning and if they continue its byebye

dont let others spoil your fun cause they spam your chats and ts servers, just remove them

[sirlliak]

why would you keep such ppl in your guild then?
give them a warning and if they continue its byebye

dont let others spoil your fun cause they spam your chats and ts servers, just remove them

because i am a member of said guild and that said member is a close friend of an officer so i just squelch him about 90% of the guild just have him on ignore he has been in the guild from the start.

[In_Like_Flynn]

Squelch judiciously but firmly.
Stay committed to your squelch.
Expect to be squelched.
Play.

[JakLee7]

I only temporarily squelch, when people have diarrhea of the mouth and when I can't kick the yapper from the party.

If you're talking and no one is responding, they're trying to tell you to shut up. Please do.

I told you Strake that it would never happen again - sheesh, let it go! I promised you I would not talk about that One Night in Bangkok, and the world's your oyster. The bars are temples but the pearls ain't free....

[KKDragonLord]

Squelch judiciously but firmly.
Stay committed to your squelch.
Expect to be squelched.
Play.


This.

Out of sight/hearing, out of mind. (even when hes laying on the floor bleeding to death and you can toss a heal but dont see the cleric is out of mana).

[Dark_Helmet]

I would say:
Grow a pair and grow up!


You will probably be kicked from the guild anyways for making this public, so start looking around.

[sirgog]

I tend to unsquelch people after a week or two.


One of the worst incidents I had that led to a squelching involved me leading a Shroud raid (Mod 6 days so it wasn't trivial), and someone didn't like my (non-exploit) strategy for round 4. (They wanted to use a different, but equally non-exploitative strategy that probably would have required 3 passes and a couple mana pots but was strategically solid). Despite us beating round 4 in 2 passes (good back then for a PUG) and with 0 deaths; this person deliberately caused a wipe in part 5 to grief us.


I (and most of the raid) /squelched the player - but a month or less later I unsquelched them and would be happy to group with them again - we all have our bad days when something rubs us the wrong way & we take it out on someone in-game we disagree with. (I wasn't blameless either)

[uhgungawa]

Even the nicest of us can get hit from time to time :p

LOL I knew I took you off ignore for a reason:)

[Delt]

I would say:
Grow a pair and grow up!


You will probably be kicked from the guild anyways for making this public, so start looking around.

I doubt it. So vague even I don't know what the OP is talking about. I will say I know the OP, and I know a lot of the stuff they do rubs some people the wrong way. Nothing he does bugs me...but I'm a pretty easy going person.

Talk to an officer - see if they can help you resolve it. If that fails, then do whatever works for you (ignore it, don't group with them, find a new guild, etc.). At the end of the day, the only thing you can control is your own choices.

Not sure what the purpose of this thread is...selfish attention or desire for serious advice to your vague story? Either seem like poor judgement on your part and maybe an example of the things you do that annoy certain people.

Just sayin.

[Zhorge]

I thought I'd ask if anyone has ever seriously squelched a guildie with the intention of keeping them squelched.

One example of actions witnessed was the Squelcher offered an item up in chat and saying there was no way the guildie you have squelched would get it. No one else but that guildie wants the item, but, you put the item for auction on the AH. Being that it wasn't really soemething the squelchee needed, they did not buy it and did not consider buying it because they felt the Squelcher was bashing his/her feelings. So, the weapon sat on the AH until it expired. The weapon wasn't really nice anyway considering that Shroud weapons were better in all ratings (and this was mod 8).

Whatever the Squelcher did was because of something the squelchee had done way back in mod 4 or a little after the server-merge before they even were a guildie of the Squelcher and they have no recollection of what it was they even did. The guildie that recieved the squelch was basically a casual gamer and new to the game (and all MMOs) at the time. The squelchee tried to use logic, appology, and the greater good to attempt to reason in mod 8+9 to get unsquelched so all can benefit from better communication. It's not like the individual would be getting any kind of item, or reward of item value from being unsquelched. The squelchee is always respectful of others and treats everyone right, but at times did do minor things others might not have agreed with.

In my opinion, it would benefit any parties and/or raids if all members could see/hear what the others were saying. It's not like any offensive language or poor behavior resulted in the squelch which the guildie in question recieved from another. The guildie that is squelched acknowledges that some of the newbish behavior may have caused it, since they were a very casual gamer during the time period they received the squelch, but if that was ~5 mods ago (prior to mod 5, or about 2-3 years ago), people change. Can anyone honestly say that they play/act the same as when they first started playing a DDO (especially if it was their first experience playing an MMORPG)? Can anyone say that they act 100% the same with others and do 100% of all their actions from 3 years ago as a person in general? It would be a positive move if all needless and senseless grudges which hold no current merit could be dropped.

I know a lot of people do have a forgiving attitude, and if someone is extremely insulting and offensive, or rude, they probably deserve a squelch. But if someone has done a few minor things which you might have not agreed with, is a squelch and a longterm grudge really necessary (especially if both involved are guildies). Should a guildie ever squelch another guildie for any reason instead of trying to mutually resolve differences or put aside any of their past mistakes?

I would like to know how others view the situation?Kick the squelcher. That's what I did when I ran a guild (different MMORPG). Hell, I'd kick people for cussing out guild-mates or back-biting them or any of that garbage. Life is too short for the terminally immature to wreck it for you.

[Ereshkigal]

I would like to know how others view the situation?

Let it go.

[Lorien_the_First_One]

Nice confusing OP.... you are having a squelch and loot fight with a guildy? tell your officers to get their butt in gear to solve this. Either you need to make nice or one of you needs to go.

[Eternity25]

Nice confusing OP.... you are having a squelch and loot fight with a guildy? tell your officers to get their butt in gear to solve this. Either you need to make nice or one of you needs to go.

The fight has nothing to do with loot. I know I am completely right when I say it is wrong for anyone to keeping someone squelched if it is over a trivial matter such as an issue with a playstyle or a 2 year old forum post. They could at least say what the problem was. If there is a fight against anything it is a fight of ideologies, and I know I am right. Keeping someone squelched over a trivial matter is immature and childish.

I may have a more descriptive post on Yahoo Answers! asking anyone internet user's opinion on whether it is right for someone to keep another individual blocked instead of trying resolve a conflict... then again, I may not.... ;)

[bandyman1]

The fight has nothing to do with loot. I know I am completely right when I say it is wrong for anyone to keeping someone squelched if it is over a trivial matter such as an issue with a playstyle or a 2 year old forum post. They could at least say what the problem was. If there is a fight against anything it is a fight of ideologies, and I know I am right. Keeping someone squelched over a trivial matter is immature and childish.


Whining for someone to tell you you're right, and that " Billy should just play nice with you ", is just as immature and childish.

The problem is between you and another individual. Resolve the issue yourselves. It should never have been brought here.

[FluffyCalico]

I thought I'd ask if anyone has ever seriously squelched a guildie with the intention of keeping them squelched.



Just 1 guildie is on my squelch list. I do not see myself putting a 2nd on there.
However no way in hell that 1 is comming off squelch.

[Uska]

:confused:Ummm what is the answer 3?:confused:

[Minor_Threat]

To the OP,

I'm the squelcher in question.

The fact that you posted this here only confirms that I made the right choice.

[Arnya]

To the OP,

I'm the squelcher in question.

The fact that you posted this here only confirms that I made the right choice.

BURN!!

OP: Squelch the noisy whiney ones, make a note of the stupid arses and just ask for the star if they join your group, and boot em ;)

Oh, and I will never forget my first guildie vs guildie fight - 2 infractions for me and a whole boatload of embarassment for him later he left guild without a word.

And I still refuse to run with him ever.

And he's one of those guys whose LFMs sit empty for hours then ya don't see him for months - he made a rod for his own back :)

[Eternity25]

To the OP,

I'm the squelcher in question.

The fact that you posted this here only confirms that I made the right choice.

Why was I squelched in the first place? Care to enlighten me so I remember?

[usefullidiot]

Its a cover up man. Dont belive the lies,
It was the squelcher on the grassy knoll

[FluffyCalico]

Might make office meetings a bit difficult, just like I'm sure it makes raids and quests difficult

Why the only person who should be giving instructions in a raid is the leader. Also if its a guild run 99% chance no instructions are needed.

[Minor_Threat]

Why was I squelched in the first place? Care to enlighten me so I remember?

· Whenever anyone is giving something away in guild or group you ask for it and have no problem taking it over others who might need it. I know things that are given to you end up immediately in AH.

· You constantly talk about your loot, or character achievements, give random facts about things you've done in game that are of no interest to anyone.

· You post LFM's for dungeons you are incapable of running and rely on people who join to do them for you.

· You constantly go AFK w/o notice and mysteriously come back just as everything is finished.

· You lack the ability to take directions.

· You've often been the catalyst in party wipes.

· Senseless posts on DDO forums that draw negative attention to yourself and anyone connected to you.

· LFM's that draw negative attention to yourself and anyone connected to you.

· Squelching you in inconsequential and doesn't affect gameplay at all, simply because you bring nothing to the table.

These are the reasons, there was not one single event that caused it.
Whenever you rolled a new toon I didn't squelch until you exhibited the same behavior and yet each one is squelched.

Furthermore, I don't understand why you care that I have you squelched or why you felt the need to post it here,
in a guild as large as ours you are bound to not get along with people,
if you can't accept this in the microcosm of DDO, then your going to have a rough time in life.

[abull74]

LMAO!! This just REEKS of Khyber drama. OP, are you from Khyber? Come on, we know already....just wanna hear you say it....



I AM THE FPOON!!!

[Eternity25]

· Whenever anyone is giving something away in guild or group you ask for it and have no problem taking it over others who might need it. I know things that are given to you end up immediately in AH.

· You constantly talk about your loot, or character achievements, give random facts about things you've done in game that are of no interest to anyone.

· You post LFM's for dungeons you are incapable of running and rely on people who join to do them for you.

· You constantly go AFK w/o notice and mysteriously come back just as everything is finished.

· You lack the ability to take directions.

· You've often been the catalyst in party wipes.

· Senseless posts on DDO forums that draw negative attention to yourself and anyone connected to you.

· LFM's that draw negative attention to yourself and anyone connected to you.

· Squelching you in inconsequential and doesn't affect gameplay at all, simply because you bring nothing to the table.

These are the reasons, there was not one single event that caused it.
Whenever you rolled a new toon I didn't squelch until you exhibited the same behavior and yet each one is squelched.

Furthermore, I don't understand why you care that I have you squelched or why you felt the need to post it here,
in a guild as large as ours you are bound to not get along with people,
if you can't accept this in the microcosm of DDO, then your going to have a rough time in life.

How wrong you are. I usually don't ask for anything that if offered up and if I do I only ask for what would benefit me. I've given away tomes I could have used but decided to share. I usually am not the catalyst of party wipes. 99% of all the parties I have been in were successful. I am a keen listener witha good sense of directions, which is evident by my many awards in real life and my quick ability to learn in MMOs. When I was a power gamer I brought more to the table than you ever did. I never go afk without giving notice, you are confusing me with another player that quit. I can't mention the name without violating TOS. I usually don't give random facts, I do on occassion to brag of achievements.

Minor_Threat, since I am leaving game permanently this time around, I wanted to give you a gift . Here's my gift to you from Yahoo Answers! I'd give you the question I asked, but I added too many specific details. :cool:
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[KKDragonLord]

*snip* screenshot or... nvm...

Minor_Threat, since I am leaving game permanently this time around, I wanted to give you a gift . Here's my gift to you from Yahoo Answers! I'd give you the question I asked, but I added too many specific details. :cool:
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berating others through yahoo answers was... a whole new level in childish bickering... there has to be some kind of award for this remarkable achievement

[Arnya]

Minor_Threat, since I am leaving game permanently this time around, I wanted to give you a gift . Here's my gift to you from Yahoo Answers! I'd give you the question I asked, but I added too many specific details. :cool:
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Crash and burn?

Teh internetz agreed with you - you must be right!!

[uhgungawa]

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Tasty Drama, This must be Khyber Jr. :D

[Minor_Threat]

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[Eternity25]

oh noes.

I have a gift for you too!
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Wow!!! A cat using a computer. Is this suppose to be funny or offensive? I consider it to be weird. What generation is this from....retro?

[Minor_Threat]

Wow!!! A cat using a computer. Is this suppose to be funny or offensive? I consider it to be weird. What generation is this from....retro?

I just like it. it's a kitty and he's saying "LEEEROOOYYYY!!1!!", it's funny and it's makes about as much sense as this whole ordeal.

[Delt]

In real life I have 100+ friends, have reiceved numerous awards, have been praised by authority figures (teachers, professors, employers, and aquintances), and am found to be an excellent individual.

Yet you go to Yahoo for wordly wisdom and sage advice?

Congrats Tropica, I'm officially embarrassed for you.

[Eternity25]

I am proud of this forum post because it shows my ego and my pride. Yahoo Answers! was only to poll others on what they thought of the situation. I know I am in the right and I am always right.

[Spisey]

I know I am in the right and I am always right.


Transforming into mechadeautsch in

5....

4....

3....

2....

1....

:D;)

[roggane]

nooooooooooooo..........

don't really quit, where will we get our drama?

[Gorby]

http://img196.imageshack.us/img196/1491/dramat.jpg

[Eternity25]

nooooooooooooo..........

don't really quit, where will we get our drama?


Ever since the forum post a few years back about wanting to start my own collection which I have longsince abandoned, I was the center of drama. I was kicked out of TES because I was a noob and didn't know much about MMOs. I was expelled from the IFV during mod 4 because I looted a +3 Int Tome from reaver (it was the time when the raid loot system was modified). I was expelled from IS during Mod 5 when I was told by one high up officer that I focused too much on Shadow Crypt runs and the necro quests. I have been squelched because of my old forum posts, my playstyle, and trivial matters, and because I politely accussed someone of insulting me when it was only meant as a joke. I have my characters slandered. I don't want a collection any longer because it holds no more value for me and because I am a casual gamer, the grind is too intense here. I have been planning to leave for awhile, and after all the modifications in game, and major life changes, its time I quit. The grind system is more like work and its all old for me. It's time I left and found a new MMO that will grant me a new start, and give me a sense of excitement. It's grown stale for me here and a longterm history I can not shake away, which is why I thought I'd give the basic drama history and leave with a bang.

I'd like to congratulate all the enemies I have made over my time playing and tell them they won't have to deal with Tropica any longer. I'm quitting for good and you can rely on someone else for drama needs. It's not like I was having a lot of fun with the lag, grind, combined with my casual gaming, and lack of time to play anyway. The features of the game such as mailing, movement, chat system, and customization of appearance were the best features. The combat system was also above average. Though I am permanently quitting, it's not like I have been playing much in-game for the past 13 months. I wasted most of my yearly membership and don't intend to waste my time any longer. My subscription has been cancelled and I don't intend to ever log in again. I have my pick between 40+ other MMOs, and I'll be trying out many of them to test their features, see the personality of their player base, and see if I like the atomosphere.

By the way, the only server I ever played on was Thelanis. I would have gone to Ghallanda or Sarlona if I was still a power gamer but I made up my mind to quit for good.

You might not have agreed with everything I have done throughout my time here but I sincerely wish everyone the best of luck.

I guess I wanted closure before I permanently left and I feel obtained it.

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s235/revmyspace2/graphics/Greeting/Goodbye/goodbye_bye2.gif

[Minor_Threat]

So i guess this means I can't have your stuff? ;)

[Eternity25]

So i guess this means I can't have your stuff? ;)

I'm keeping what I have in my bank. Even though I won't be playing, I'll still have a small collection. I invested around $700 membership costs and 3+ years into my account so I'll keep what I have despite the fact I won't be playing. Even if I wanted to give my stuff away I will not be logging on again.

[Minor_Threat]

it was a joke.

[Eternity25]

Did you always quote me on my posts, and my characters in-game to mock me? Minor_Threat, I'm curious as to why you like to quote me? Is it because you dislike me so much you want to publish what I say or because you my quotes to be filled with greatness? The quote you have as your signature pertains to my real life, so it is completely factual so I think its great you find me interesting as a person.

[Delt]

Did you always quote me on my posts, and my characters in-game to mock me? Minor_Threat, I'm curious as to why you like to quote me? Is it because you dislike me so much you want to publish what I say or because you my quotes to be filled with greatness? The quote you have as your signature pertains to my real life, so it is completely factual so I think its great you find me interesting as a person.

Why are you still here?

:rolleyes:

[Minor_Threat]

Did you always quote me on my posts, and my characters in-game to mock me? Minor_Threat, I'm curious as to why you like to quote me? Is it because you dislike me so much you want to publish what I say or because you my quotes to be filled with greatness? The quote you have as your signature pertains to my real life, so it is completely factual so I think its great you find me interesting as a person.

I find you very interesting.

[Eternity25]

I find you very interesting.

What do you find weird or unusual about the quote about myself as a person? That it is hard to believe its true or that you can't believe I actually have so many friends, honors, and admiration?

"In real life I have 100+ friends, have reiceved numerous awards, have been praised by authority figures (teachers, professors, employers, and aquintances), and am found to be an excellent individual. "

[Minor_Threat]

What do you find weird or unusual about the quote about myself as a person? That it is hard to believe its true or that you can't believe I actually have so many friends, honors, and admiration?

"In real life I have 100+ friends, have reiceved numerous awards, have been praised by authority figures (teachers, professors, employers, and aquintances), and am found to be an excellent individual. "

I just find it silly that you would feel the need to mention it here.

I'm a ninja in real life, ninjas have no friends because we have to kill people.

[Elsbet]

http://img196.imageshack.us/img196/1491/dramat.jpg

ROFLMAO!

+rep for you!

[Lorien_the_First_One]

The fight has nothing to do with loot. I know I am completely right when I say it is wrong for anyone to keeping someone squelched if it is over a trivial matter such as an issue with a playstyle or a 2 year old forum post. They could at least say what the problem was. If there is a fight against anything it is a fight of ideologies, and I know I am right. Keeping someone squelched over a trivial matter is immature and childish.

I may have a more descriptive post on Yahoo Answers! asking anyone internet user's opinion on whether it is right for someone to keep another individual blocked instead of trying resolve a conflict... then again, I may not.... ;)

Wow, you call someone childish because they don't like you and don't want to listen to you. Then you come here to whine they don't like you, and when people don't back you, go whining on yahoo answers? Who is being childish again?

If I was an officer in your guild (and please tell me you aren't in my guild) I'd be voting for your removal right now for your attempt to publically embarrass yourself this way. It doesn't sound like you are a fit for your guild anymore.


By the way, the only server I ever played on was Thelanis.

Oh good, not anyone I have to squelch/boot :p


To the OP,

I'm the squelcher in question.

The fact that you posted this here only confirms that I made the right choice.

/chuckles


I'd like to congratulate all the enemies I have made over my time playing and tell them they won't have to deal with Tropica any longer. I'm quitting for good and you can rely on someone else for drama needs.

Bye.

[roggane]

Ever since the forum post a few years back about wanting to start my own collection which I have longsince abandoned, I was the center of drama. I was kicked out of TES because I was a noob and didn't know much about MMOs. I was expelled from the IFV during mod 4 because I looted a +3 Int Tome from reaver (it was the time when the raid loot system was modified). I was expelled from IS during Mod 5 when I was told by one high up officer that I focused too much on Shadow Crypt runs and the necro quests. I have been squelched because of my old forum posts, my playstyle, and trivial matters, and because I politely accussed someone of insulting me when it was only meant as a joke. I have my characters slandered. I don't want a collection any longer because it holds no more value for me and because I am a casual gamer, the grind is too intense here. I have been planning to leave for awhile, and after all the modifications in game, and major life changes, its time I quit. The grind system is more like work and its all old for me. It's time I left and found a new MMO that will grant me a new start, and give me a sense of excitement. It's grown stale for me here and a longterm history I can not shake away, which is why I thought I'd give the basic drama history and leave with a bang.

I'd like to congratulate all the enemies I have made over my time playing and tell them they won't have to deal with Tropica any longer. I'm quitting for good and you can rely on someone else for drama needs. It's not like I was having a lot of fun with the lag, grind, combined with my casual gaming, and lack of time to play anyway. The features of the game such as mailing, movement, chat system, and customization of appearance were the best features. The combat system was also above average. Though I am permanently quitting, it's not like I have been playing much in-game for the past 13 months. I wasted most of my yearly membership and don't intend to waste my time any longer. My subscription has been cancelled and I don't intend to ever log in again. I have my pick between 40+ other MMOs, and I'll be trying out many of them to test their features, see the personality of their player base, and see if I like the atomosphere.

By the way, the only server I ever played on was Thelanis. I would have gone to Ghallanda or Sarlona if I was still a power gamer but I made up my mind to quit for good.

You might not have agreed with everything I have done throughout my time here but I sincerely wish everyone the best of luck.

I guess I wanted closure before I permanently left and I feel obtained it.

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s235/revmyspace2/graphics/Greeting/Goodbye/goodbye_bye2.gif

It's probably best you keep telling yourself these things to make it ok.

Unfortunately in your eyes, it's everyone else's fault.....not your own. I'd say take some time to reflect on your own actions to figure it out but it's gonna fall on deaf ears.

Good luck in your next game and hope you learn from your experience here.

[In_Like_Flynn]

... you are confusing me with another player that quit. I can't mention the name ... It was my little brother. I swear!


http://img196.imageshack.us/img196/1491/dramat.jpgEpic win! +1 Rep


Why are you still here?I spitz me coffee. +1 Rep

[KelWayne]

Am I the only one who had a junior high school flashback reading this?

Susie told Tommy to tell Bobby that Betty is mad at Bobby because Bobby told Tommy that Susie is ugly and Betty got mad because Susie is her best friend and now Betty isn't talking to Bobby or Tommy...

*boom* My brain imploded writing that.

So should Susie sell seashells or should she sell shoes?

[Eternity25]

It's probably best you keep telling yourself these things to make it ok.

Unfortunately in your eyes, it's everyone else's fault.....not your own. I'd say take some time to reflect on your own actions to figure it out but it's gonna fall on deaf ears.

Good luck in your next game and hope you learn from your experience here.


The only thing I learned from my experience here is that there is a lot of intolerant players and cliques. I have been playing other MMOs that have solo play and group play and find that I enjoy them more. Nothing was my fault and it never was. Everything I did angered someone but I let a lot of things slide when I was angered.

I was expelled from TES because I was new to MMOs and did not know a lot about chat systems. I was expelled from TES in mod 3 for not using guild chat as much as I should have and after I was expelled, and it was explained to me, I had no problems using chat. All it shows is an intolerance to a new player to both a casual player of DDO and a first-timer to MMOs.

Wishsong expelled me from IFV because I looted a +3 Int Tome from Reaver in Mod 4. How many times have other people looted tomes when it would have benefited other members more? It was only a major issue when I did it.

Durrack Expelled me from IS in mod 5, being backed up by Aceita because I tended to focus a lot on loot runs in the Necro and Invaders, and said I had playstyle issues. How many other people did a lot of loot runs to get items they needed? Back in mod 5 an arcane could kill the air eles a lot faster than now, so of course there wasn't always be something that needs to be done every moment in reaver.

Gaxpar had problems because of my forum post about trying to form a collection. Forming a collection has offensive label on it. But apparently it offended Doctorwhofan and Gaxpar, and a lot of others.

My LFMs I put to show I soloed quests and wanted to get extra chances at a named item I needed or extra ingredients angered other people. Tygre got help with looting the Eldricht Runes and it was ok. When I asked for help with trying to get named items or ingredients after soloing the entire quest, and giving free loot and end reward, I am criticized.

I was squelched by Bunk even after I appologized for politely accussed him of making an offensive comment towards me. No idea why I squelched for politely asking if a statement was offensively directed toward me. Even more so after I finished appologizing for the polite accusation.

These are some some of the situations of my time at DDO. All of which I was singled out in and targeted. I am not at fault in any of the situations. If anyone is at fault it is anyone who took things the wrong way or always want to have control. There were also game imbalances to help add to the issues in question such as loot imbalances.

I Included actual names with the intention of being banned incase anyone points it out. I found other games which have no lag, a more open and accepting play base, less grinding, and better graphics. The other games support single and group makeup. So I am happy to be leaving.

[Impaqt]

Ever since the forum post a few years back about wanting to start my own collection which I have longsince abandoned, I was the center of drama. I was kicked out of TES because I was a noob and didn't know much about MMOs. I was expelled from the IFV during mod 4 because I looted a +3 Int Tome from reaver (it was the time when the raid loot system was modified). I was expelled from IS during Mod 5 when I was told by one high up officer that I focused too much on Shadow Crypt runs and the necro quests. I have been squelched because of my old forum posts, my playstyle, and trivial matters, and because I politely accussed someone of insulting me when it was only meant as a joke. I have my characters slandered. I don't want a collection any longer because it holds no more value for me and because I am a casual gamer, the grind is too intense here. I have been planning to leave for awhile, and after all the modifications in game, and major life changes, its time I quit. The grind system is more like work and its all old for me. It's time I left and found a new MMO that will grant me a new start, and give me a sense of excitement. It's grown stale for me here and a longterm history I can not shake away, which is why I thought I'd give the basic drama history and leave with a bang.

I'd like to congratulate all the enemies I have made over my time playing and tell them they won't have to deal with Tropica any longer. I'm quitting for good and you can rely on someone else for drama needs. It's not like I was having a lot of fun with the lag, grind, combined with my casual gaming, and lack of time to play anyway. The features of the game such as mailing, movement, chat system, and customization of appearance were the best features. The combat system was also above average. Though I am permanently quitting, it's not like I have been playing much in-game for the past 13 months. I wasted most of my yearly membership and don't intend to waste my time any longer. My subscription has been cancelled and I don't intend to ever log in again. I have my pick between 40+ other MMOs, and I'll be trying out many of them to test their features, see the personality of their player base, and see if I like the atomosphere.

By the way, the only server I ever played on was Thelanis. I would have gone to Ghallanda or Sarlona if I was still a power gamer but I made up my mind to quit for good.

You might not have agreed with everything I have done throughout my time here but I sincerely wish everyone the best of luck.

I guess I wanted closure before I permanently left and I feel obtained it.

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s235/revmyspace2/graphics/Greeting/Goodbye/goodbye_bye2.gif


Yes yes. You've obviously never done anything wrong. Lets throw a pity party. If you think you were kicked from IFV for looting a tome, that only goes to show how clueless you are on the entire situation.

[Elsbet]

Yes yes. You've obviously never done anything wrong. Lets throw a pity party. If you think you were kicked from IFV for looting a tome, that only goes to show how clueless you are on the entire situation.

That's it! I'm telling KoboldKiller to tell Borror0 to tell Mhykke to tell SableShadow to tell you that I'm not speaking to you anymore.

:p

[Lorien_the_First_One]

What do you find weird or unusual about the quote about myself as a person? That it is hard to believe its true or that you can't believe I actually have so many friends, honors, and admiration?

"In real life I have 100+ friends, have reiceved numerous awards, have been praised by authority figures (teachers, professors, employers, and aquintances), and am found to be an excellent individual. "

Well if you THINK you have 100+ friends you don't know what friends are. People who friend you on FB or who you go to the same party with are not friends.

And if your sig is talking about how your value is set based on your teachers opinion of you... well.... it speaks to either a lack of self confidence or a "no honest, some people like me" claim which ususally means its not true anyway. It's just very odd to put that sort of rather weak brag in a sig.

[Impaqt]

Wishsong expelled me from IFV because I looted a +3 Int Tome from Reaver in Mod 4. How many times have other people looted tomes when it would have benefited other members more? It was only a major issue when I did it.


Sorry, I am NOT going to sit here and let IFV get slandered.

No one has EVER been expelled from IFV for looting a piece of raid gear that fell in their name.

Speaking in general terms, People get booted from IFV for.

Not being a Team Player.

Having an attitude of superiority when they have 74 Hit points running GH Content.

Dieing constantly then blaming the clerics for not keeping them HJEALED!

Complete lack of self sufficient play and no desire to Correct/Improve.

Repeated selfish behavior with no desire to help the guild.

Inability to understand constructive criticism and lashing out.



Enjoy your next game..... again......

[Delt]

So I am happy to be leaving.

Why are you still here?

:rolleyes:

[Lorien_the_First_One]

Why are you still here?

:rolleyes:


Drama queen maybe?

[TehSilence]

Nothing was my fault and it never was. Everything I did angered someone...

I was expelled from TES because...
I was expelled from TES in mod 3...
Wishsong expelled me from IFV...
Durrack Expelled me from IS in mod 5, being backed up by Aceita...
Gaxpar had problems because of my forum post about trying to form a collection...
I was squelched by Bunk...

I am not at fault in any of the situations. If anyone is at fault it is anyone who took things the wrong way...

Wow. This is a train-wreck of an experience.

So all these bad things happen to you, and you think none of it was ever your fault?

Get used to disappointment in MMOs and in life. Hope you figure it out soon. :(

[Elsbet]

Drama queen maybe?

Attention ...

You're on the list now too. I'm telling Impaqt to tell.... Oh ****, I'm not talking to him either...

*covers ears*lalalalalalalalalala* I can't hear you!

[TheSwamper]

I'm just annoyed at Elsbet for leaving me hanging about what happened with Bobby and Susie and Timmy.

[Elsbet]

I'm just annoyed at Elsbet for leaving me hanging about what happened with Bobby and Susie and Timmy.

As with any junior high school spat, they are all friends again. However, none of them are talking to Sally or James now. I'm not sure why because Tommy hasn't told Betty to tell Susie to tell Bobby to tell me yet.

[Thrudh]

Nothing was my fault and it never was. Everything I did angered someone...

I was expelled from TES because...
I was expelled from TES in mod 3...
Wishsong expelled me from IFV...
Durrack Expelled me from IS in mod 5, being backed up by Aceita...
Gaxpar had problems because of my forum post about trying to form a collection...
I was squelched by Bunk...

I am not at fault in any of the situations. If anyone is at fault it is anyone who took things the wrong way...

If I can offer some advice....

You need to look at YOUR actions... You're rubbing people the wrong way... It's a pattern that repeats over and over. Don't get depressed or sad about it... This is just the Internet, and you'll never see these people again...

But LEARN from it... Truly look at yourself. Next MMO, really try to put other people first... don't brag... listen more... Everyone has room to grow... Understand that you ARE at fault, so learn which behaviors to not repeat...

This can be a good experience for you, if you learn something from it...

Good luck to you... Ten years from now, you'll look back at all this and laugh a little (and cringe a little - I know I do when I think about the silly things I said when I was young).

[TheSwamper]

As with any junior high school spat, they are all friends again. However, none of them are talking to Sally or James now. I'm not sure why because Tommy hasn't told Betty to tell Susie to tell Bobby to tell me yet.

ROFL. Thanks, I'll be able to sleep tonight.

+1 rep for you

[KKDragonLord]

The only thing I learned from my experience here is that there is a lot of intolerant players and cliques...
I was expelled from TES because I...

Wishsong expelled me from IFV because I...

Durrack Expelled me from IS in mod 5, being backed up by Aceita because I...

Gaxpar had problems because of my...

My LFMs I put to show I soloed quests and wanted to get extra chances at a named item I...

I was squelched by Bunk even after I appologized for...

These are some some of the situations of my time at DDO. All of which I was singled out in and targeted.

I Included actual names with the intention of being banned...
The other games support single and group makeup. So I am happy to be leaving.

"There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt".

Cool story bro, gb, dont worry, this "persecution" will happen in other games as well.

[cdbd3rd]

.... squelch squelch squelch. I don't think I've seen that word this many times on one page.


Tis a funny little word though. Squelch. :p Kinda like Cumquat, or Garbonzo.




:D

[Bunker]

I was squelched by Bunk even after I appologized for politely accussed him of making an offensive comment towards me. No idea why I squelched for politely asking if a statement was offensively directed toward me. Even more so after I finished appologizing for the polite accusation.

You have no idea what you are talking about.

Thanks so much for adding me into this really GREAT(caps = sarcasim) thread and all, but you don't have the foggiest. If you are going to tell a story about me or anyone else, at least get the story straight first before you spell it out for all to see.

LMAO

[rykim]

So, I'm sitting here at Jury duty, bored out of my mind. I come on over to one of the computers available to the jurors to see what's going on in ddo land. Lo and behold, more drama...

If this isn't a primer for how not to be a good guildie or player, I don't know what is....

How anyone could be so clueless as to not GET IT after being expelled from numerous guilds, I have no idea.

To be constantly seeking validation by posting this kind of drivel on the forums and other sites (namely Yahoo, and probably only posting your side of the story), is PATHETIC.

The way you present yourself here and on your lfms to me is : Weak minded, Selfish, Self Centered, Pathetic, Emotionally Needy, Moronic, and overall Lame.

For the love of all that's sane, Just Leave.

[Bunker]

I was squelched by Bunk even after I appologized for politely accussed him of making an offensive comment towards me. No idea why I squelched for politely asking if a statement was offensively directed toward me. Even more so after I finished appologizing for the polite accusation.

Ok, I just finished brewing a new pot of coffee, took another look at this post.

I should of said this a few posts up so here goes try #2:

WOOT! Thx for including me! I RULE!

/facepalm

[Eternity25]

So, I'm sitting here at Jury duty, bored out of my mind. I come on over to one of the computers available to the jurors to see what's going on in ddo land. Lo and behold, more drama...

If this isn't a primer for how not to be a good guildie or player, I don't know what is....

How anyone could be so clueless as to not GET IT after being expelled from numerous guilds, I have no idea.

To be constantly seeking validation by posting this kind of drivel on the forums and other sites (namely Yahoo, and probably only posting your side of the story), is PATHETIC.

The way you present yourself here and on your lfms to me is : Weak minded, Selfish, Self Centered, Pathetic, Emotionally Needy, Moronic, and overall Lame.

For the love of all that's sane, Just Leave.

That is your opinion which you are entitled to have. The only thing I have to say about that is it is completely off. Due to the complete inaccuracy of your comments, I will not waste my time typing up backup additional comments for this response.

[Osharan_Tregarth]

Nice confusing OP.... you are having a squelch and loot fight with a guildy? tell your officers to get their butt in gear to solve this. Either you need to make nice or one of you needs to go.

I agree...

[Charlemagne2]

After reading this thread im glad I have never grouped/guild with you, Does the term "Turd in a Punchbowl" mean anything to you?

[Letrii]

So kicked out of 3 guilds and it's not his fault? /boggle

[Thorzian]

why in the world would anybody group with someone they had squelched? it doesnt matter why the squelch happened or who's fault it is, if someone on my "dont play with" list is in a party, im not.

[Minor_Threat]

The funny thing about this whole ordeal is the fact that there wasn't a fight at all, every time I saw the player or grouped with this player he found a way to irritate me. So I squelched him to avoid him, he's the only guildie I've ever squelched and maybe 1 of 5 people on the server that I've squelched. He didn't even know that he was squelched for more than a year, he found out 6 months ago (Because I offered free loot in chat and didn't see his response) and then recently he started this thread here (and Yahoo?).

Why he cares? I don't know. (He/She may have a mental issue?)

Squelching him/her was only an attempt so save myself a headache, which it did for awhile.

[WeaselKing]

The only thing I learned from my experience here is that there is a lot of intolerant players and cliques. I have been playing other MMOs that have solo play and group play and find that I enjoy them more. Nothing was my fault and it never was. Everything I did angered someone but I let a lot of things slide when I was angered.

I was expelled from TES because I was new to MMOs and did not know a lot about chat systems. I was expelled from TES in mod 3 for not using guild chat as much as I should have and after I was expelled, and it was explained to me, I had no problems using chat. All it shows is an intolerance to a new player to both a casual player of DDO and a first-timer to MMOs.

Wishsong expelled me from IFV because I looted a +3 Int Tome from Reaver in Mod 4. How many times have other people looted tomes when it would have benefited other members more? It was only a major issue when I did it.

Durrack Expelled me from IS in mod 5, being backed up by Aceita because I tended to focus a lot on loot runs in the Necro and Invaders, and said I had playstyle issues. How many other people did a lot of loot runs to get items they needed? Back in mod 5 an arcane could kill the air eles a lot faster than now, so of course there wasn't always be something that needs to be done every moment in reaver.

Gaxpar had problems because of my forum post about trying to form a collection. Forming a collection has offensive label on it. But apparently it offended Doctorwhofan and Gaxpar, and a lot of others.

My LFMs I put to show I soloed quests and wanted to get extra chances at a named item I needed or extra ingredients angered other people. Tygre got help with looting the Eldricht Runes and it was ok. When I asked for help with trying to get named items or ingredients after soloing the entire quest, and giving free loot and end reward, I am criticized.

I was squelched by Bunk even after I appologized for politely accussed him of making an offensive comment towards me. No idea why I squelched for politely asking if a statement was offensively directed toward me. Even more so after I finished appologizing for the polite accusation.

These are some some of the situations of my time at DDO. All of which I was singled out in and targeted. I am not at fault in any of the situations. If anyone is at fault it is anyone who took things the wrong way or always want to have control. There were also game imbalances to help add to the issues in question such as loot imbalances.

I Included actual names with the intention of being banned incase anyone points it out. I found other games which have no lag, a more open and accepting play base, less grinding, and better graphics. The other games support single and group makeup. So I am happy to be leaving.

Wow! Don't let the door hit you in the rear on your way out.

[Lorien_the_First_One]

You have no idea what you are talking about.

Thanks so much for adding me into this really GREAT(caps = sarcasim) thread and all, but you don't have the foggiest. If you are going to tell a story about me or anyone else, at least get the story straight first before you spell it out for all to see.

LMAO

personally I love that he "politely accused"... as if those two words could ever go together

[Lorien_the_First_One]

That is your opinion which you are entitled to have. The only thing I have to say about that is it is completely off. Due to the complete inaccuracy of your comments, I will not waste my time typing up backup additional comments for this response.

Didn't you leave?

[Minor_Threat]

Didn't you leave?

Yeah, but he left 2 months ago also (http://forums.ddo.com/showthread.php?t=194252).

Yet he continues to bless us with his presence.

[Thorzian]

uh, oh lorien.. double posting. bad form /squelch :D

[WeaselKing]

uh, oh lorien.. double posting. bad form /squelch :D

I thought everyone already had Lorien squelched. ;)

[Eternity25]

personally I love that he "politely accused"... as if those two words could ever go together


Politely Accused would be something like "Did you mean that as offensive to insult me?"
Note that there is no vulgar terminology anywhere in that accusation. That is a politely accusation.

[croger1520033]

everyone should just squelch everyone else the game would be much smoother that way... lol.

[Elsbet]

/squelch everyone

[Lorien_the_First_One]

uh, oh lorien.. double posting. bad form /squelch :D


I thought everyone already had Lorien squelched. ;)

I think its safe to assume that. It all goes back to 3 years ago when my former posts gave insult to people for no reason. You see I'm so uber that they got jealous.


Politely Accused would be something like "Did you mean that as offensive to insult me?"
Note that there is no vulgar terminology anywhere in that accusation. That is a politely accusation.

See that's still a rude way to ask the question because it includes an accusation. Accusation is never polite. You can accuse someone, which is agressive by definition, or you can politely ask someone what they meant by a comment. You took the rude path.

I can see interpersonal relationships are hard for you based on this and based on being kicked from 3 guilds and not understanding you might have a part in it. Keep working on it and I'm sure you will learn to understand people better.

[Elsbet]

Oh ******... I can still see people. /squelch everyone didn't work.

Hey Pheona, ever hear the saying "the only common factor in all your dysfunctional relationships is you"? You should give it some thought. Seriously. Oh, and Lorien is right. There is no such thing as a polite accusation. Your behavior is rude and childish.