Please help....

[BluPhenix316]

Ok so if you look at me it looks like i've been with DDO for a while but i stopped my subscription soon after i started it............the world has changed, the beginning area is soo much diffrent. Regardless, i'm wondering, how should I begin? I don't have a 32 point build or drow. I'm wondering, what is the best starter class, and really how to find helpful people. I know from playing PnP D&D solo is not the way to go. Anyhoo, i'm just reaching out trying to feel the community......i'm in germany for the time being so my time is really off. and i'm military. Any Help?

EDIT:I'm also new to Eberron i'm use to Forgotten Realms........ya ya i know thats kinda lame.......
EDIT2: Ok so maybe I just can't get a honest anwser can anyone relate with me? any guild?